Ladies, let's talk about the magic button down there - the clitoris!

First of all, did you know that the clitoris is actually much larger than what we can see with the naked eye? Yep, that little button is just the tip of the iceberg. The rest of the clitoris is hidden inside the body and extends out like a wishbone. Who knew our bodies were capable of such magic?

Now let’s talk about the pleasure the clitoris provides. The clitoris is packed with nerve endings (over 8,000 to be exact!) making it one of the most sensitive parts of the female body. In fact, its sole purpose is to provide pleasure! So why not put it to good use and explore new ways to climax?

How to Explore and Stimulate the Clitoris

First, let’s start with the basics: masturbation . It’s a fun, safe, and healthy way to explore your body and figure out what feels good. Experiment with different techniques, speeds, and pressures to see what works for you. Don’t be afraid to get creative and use sex toys to spice up your solo play. Here are a few tips on how to get started:

Sit on the floor in front of a mirror, with your knees pulled up to your chest and shoulder width apart. In this position, your vulva points outwards, making it easier to look in the mirror.

Gently spread your labia with your fingertips. You may see a lump of smooth skin at the top of your vulva with some extra skin over it. Your clitoral hood is the extra skin and the lump is the glans clitoris.

Don't worry if you can't see your clitoris that way! In the absence of physical arousal, some individuals may have a harder time identifying their glans clitoris.

Put some lubricant on your fingertips and use them to stimulate your clitoris. Try drawing small circles or ovals around your clitoris, moving your fingers up and down, or gently stroking your fingers from side to side. Experiment with the pace, pattern, and pressure to see what feels good for you.

Apply pressure to the point where your labia majora meet to stimulate your clitoris (just below your pubic mound). Try rubbing up and down that area or applying pulsating pressure to a single point. This can also be done with a pulsating toy!

To stimulate your clitoral root, use your fingertips and apply massaging pressure to your labia majora. See if you naturally lean to one side or if you prefer to apply equal pressure to both labia.

To stimulate the clitoral bulbs, first rub your fingers over the opening of your vagina. Feel what it feels like to have your fingers enter your vagina, starting with one finger and adding more as you feel comfortable. You can also experiment with a dildo or internal vibrator.

When stimulating the bulbs, keep in mind that the lower part of the vagina will have the most contact with the bulbs. More fingers or a thicker toy will have the most influence here!

But enough about exploring on your own, what if you’re feeling a little adventurous and want to get your partner involved ? Communication is key here, ladies. Talk to your partner about what you like and what feels good. They can’t read your mind, so don’t be shy—give them a roadmap to pleasurable bliss. And if you’re shy about expressing your desires, remember that a good partner will be happy to oblige and try to make the experience enjoyable for both of you.

Now let’s talk about some fun positions that can lead to even more clitoral stimulation. The Coital Alignment Technique (CAT) is a great position to start with. It’s a variation on missionary where the man moves up slightly and the woman’s legs are slightly bent, allowing for more direct stimulation of the clitoris. Another fun position is “Reverse Cowgirl,” where the woman faces away from the man and straddles him. This allows her to control the speed, depth, and angle of penetration, putting her clitoris front and center.

But what if you’re feeling a little extra playful and want to up the ante? Enter: oral sex . It’s a great way to add some extra stimulation to your routine, and it can be a fun and playful way to explore your partner’s body. Remember, communication is key here, too — let your partner know what feels good and what doesn’t. And if you’re shy, don’t be afraid to guide their hand or show them exactly what you like.

And last but not least , let's talk about the ever popular " vibrator ". Vibrators come in all shapes and sizes and can take your sex life to the next level. Whether you use it alone or with a partner, the vibrations can directly stimulate the clitoris, leading to stronger and more intense orgasms. Don't be afraid to experiment with different settings and speeds to find what works best for you. You know where to find the best and tastiest vibrators & toys! In our stores in Amsterdam.

In short, the clitoris is a wonderful and magical part of the female body, designed for pleasure. So let’s embrace it and explore new ways to reach orgasm. Remember, communication is key and don’t be afraid to experiment and have a little fun! Happy exploring!