New to vibrators? Have you recently purchased one to add an element of pleasure to your life? This article is perfect for you.
Our Top 9 Favorite Vibrator Techniques
Whether you want to use it alone or with your partner, your bubbly new best friend can make your sex life even better. In today’s post, we’ll discuss some fun vibrator techniques for ultimate pleasure. Let’s get started:
1. Familiarize yourself with the vibrator first
Before you get all excited, it’s time to familiarize yourself with your new purchase. Learn how the buttons work and all the different intensities. If possible, watch a few tutorials so there’s no unwanted shock. The key to discovering the right vibrator techniques for you is understanding how your vibrator works.
2. Try it on your non-genital erogenous zones
One of the lesser known vibrator techniques is to use the vibrator on your non-genital erogenous zones. Contrary to popular belief, vibrators aren’t just for your genitals. They can be used on other erogenous zones, such as the neck, armpits, feet, and thighs, to turn you on . You can really double the fun!
3. Use it over your underwear
If your clitoris is sensitive, it can be great to try your favorite vibrator techniques with your underwear on first. Make sure to wear a softer fabric like satin or silk, as a combination of cotton and vibration is not the most pleasurable and can be quite chafing. A more delicate fabric like silk will provide the glide you want and double the fun.
4. Experimentation is key
Not everyone can use the same vibrator techniques with the same amount of pressure and at the same angle. If a certain angle or pressure doesn’t work for you, change it up and you’ll find something you do like. Try different sensations: pressing the buzzing toy against your body, laying on it, tapping it, tapping to a rhythm, and more.
5. Provide a pleasant environment
It’s hard to get turned on when your head is all messy and your trash can smells like fish. A vibrator alone won’t give you ultimate pleasure. You need to engage all five of your senses. Tidy up your bedroom or whatever space you’re in, put on a sexy playlist, turn on some classy porn, take a shower or bath and wash up, wear something sexy and soft, and start touching yourself, feeling yourself with your hands and a vibrator.
6. Experiment with edging
Once you’re comfortable with your vibrator, it’s time to give yourself an orgasm. Edging is essentially an exercise in getting close to cumming, stopping/slowing down, getting yourself excited again, and repeating the process until you can’t control yourself anymore. That’s when the ultimate pleasure happens. These vibrator techniques definitely take some practice, but once you’ve mastered them, there’s no limit to the pleasure you can achieve.
7. Try out your toy with your partner
A vibrator feels great when you’re using it alone, but it can really transform your sexual experience when you use it with a partner. If your partner is new to vibrators, wait until you’re not having sex. You don’t want to bring it up while you’re having sex. Always talk about it as an addition to your current experience rather than a criticism. The goal isn’t to portray your sex life as bad, but to make an already enjoyable experience even more exciting and better.
Reassure your partner that you are not replacing him/her with a sex toy, but are really trying to turn the experience into something truly spectacular. Some people are very sensitive about the subject, while others are cool with the idea. It is best to analyze which category your partner falls into and broach the subject in the way that he/she will be most comfortable with.
8. Explore vibrator techniques and options together
You can definitely plan a hot date and buy a toy together. It can be an incredible experience. You can choose something that you both enjoy, alone or as a couple. There is no harm in using the product alone and then using it as a couple.
Let's face it.
Vibrators can do what humans can’t. They can move quickly for hours before getting tired and being pushed under. If you’re both new to it, try using it alone for a few days. Once you’re comfortable with it, try vibrator techniques together and double the fun. Or jump straight into bed with the toy if that sounds like the most fun for you!
9. Reminder: Sex toys are a vector
Always wash it thoroughly, especially if you have bacterial vaginosis, STDs, or yeast infections and decide to use a vibrator. Otherwise, you risk making your condition worse or passing it on to your partner. Even if you don’t have an infection, it’s a good idea to clean your vibrator after each use or use a barrier protection method if you share your vibrator with your partner. Research shows that cleaning is less effective with sex toys, and the barrier protection method is the safest way to prevent STD transmission.
Either way, it's a great habit to wash and clean up your toys after each use. Make sure to dry them if you use soap and water to wash them, and store them in a clean bag.
Last Say
There are no wrong or right vibrator techniques. Try different methods and products to see what works best for you. Some people prefer the flexibility of a wand vibrator , while others enjoy a rotating rabbit vibrator . The goal is to feel good and experience ultimate pleasure. If you feel good, you are using your vibey friend the right way.
We hope you enjoyed reading this if you are new to vibrators. If you have any special vibrator techniques that you would like to share with others, feel free to comment on the blog! And if you would like some advice or a chat about vibrators, come by one of our stores!