For many of us, the idea of introducing sex toys to our partners can sometimes be uncomfortable or even overwhelming. What if they’re not open to the idea? What if they interpret it the wrong way? Take a deep breath, dear readers, because we’re going to unravel this mystery and make you feel excited, confident, and ready to begin this delicious journey.
First of all, sex toys are a way to bring intimacy, pleasure, and maybe even a little kink into your sexual routine. They are not a replacement for your partner, but rather a way to explore new sensations and experiences. Don’t worry, it doesn’t all have to be Fifty Shades of Grey (unless you want it to be, of course)!
Now that we have that out of the way, how do you introduce sex toys into your relationship? Here are some tips.
- Communication is key: Sexual pleasure is an intimate topic, and talking openly about what you want can sometimes be uncomfortable. But a healthy sexual relationship is built on mutual communication and understanding. Try to have an open conversation about your desires and invite your partner to do the same.
- Start Small: It might not be the best idea to start with the most adventurous toy in the store. Start with something small and innocent, like a feather tickler or a bullet vibrator , which will open the door to new sensations without being too intimidating.
- Make it fun: Using sex toys should be a positive and enjoyable experience. Make it a game, incorporate it into foreplay, and make sure your partner is comfortable every step of the way.
- Explore together: Make it a date! Browse sex toys online together, discuss what interests you, and decide which toy you want to try. It can also be a good idea to go to a physical store (like our Pure Lust stores) where you can ask expert salespeople for advice.
- Respect each other’s boundaries: Everyone has their own comfort zone, and it’s important to respect that. Never force anything on your partner, and make sure you take every step together.
Now that you know how to introduce sex toys into your relationship, it’s time to educate yourself a little bit about the different types of toys out there. There are so many options out there, from vibrators and dildos to bondage kits and erotic games, that there’s something for everyone. Explore, experiment, and find out what you and your partner enjoy the most.
Some of our favorite toys for couples include…
- Bullet Vibrator : This small but powerful device is a great introduction to sex toys. The bullet vibrator is discreet, easy to use, and delivers strong vibrations. It can be used for clitoral stimulation, nipple stimulation, or even along the penis for added sensation.
- Vibrating Cock Ring : The vibrating cock ring is a toy that provides pleasure to both partners. The ring is worn at the base of the penis and helps maintain an erection, while the vibrator provides clitoral stimulation during lovemaking.
- Wand Massager : The wand massager is a versatile toy that can be used for both relaxing body massages and more intimate stimulation. With a long handle and a large, round massage head, the wand massager is perfect for clitoral or perineal stimulation.
Remember, the world of sex toys is vast and varied. Start with what you are most comfortable with, and don’t be afraid to experiment and explore new things. What works for one person might not work for another, so stay open and communicative with your partner, and most importantly, have fun!
Sex toys can be a great way to enhance your sex life, improve your intimacy and discover new forms of pleasure. They are not meant to replace your partner, but to enhance the pleasure and sensations you share together. So, dare to take the plunge, keep communicating and most importantly, enjoy the journey.
And remember, at Pure Lust we are here to guide and support you every step of the way. We offer a range of toys and accessories to suit your needs, and our team of experts are always on hand to answer any questions you may have. So, come along, have a chat and let us help you take your sexual journey to the next level.
Welcome to the beautiful world of playful pleasure and seductive lust. The journey has just begun. Welcome to Pure Lust.
