Although it's considered the icing on the cake when it comes to insanely hot sex, the elusive G-spot is one of the most avoided topics in women's sexual health.
But despite what you may have been told, the G-spot exists and is completely accessible. The only problem is that few people can find it (some even claim it doesn't exist!).
In the world of sex, erogenous zones and other fine things in life, the G-spot is like the VIP section of an exclusive nightclub – it’s a big deal for those who get in, and incredibly frustrating for those who have yet to find the entrance.
But don't worry if you haven't had a vaginal orgasm yet, that doesn't mean it's impossible!
To learn more about Club G-spot (where it is, how to find it, and other fun facts), we're going exploring.
Here are our Top 7 fun facts about the holy grail of sexual hotspots, the G-spot:
Fact 1: The G-spot is about the size of a coin
The G-spot is a super-sensitive area in the vagina. Made up of erection-like tissue, just like the clitoris, it is about the size of a small coin (although it can grow in size when stimulated).
Stimulating the G-spot feels amazing and can lead to immense arousal, mind-blowing orgasms, and even female ejaculation (we'll get to that juicy tidbit later!).
Fact 2: Finding the exact location can be tricky
To find it, lie on your back, take a few deep breaths, and relax. Insert your finger about a finger’s length into your vagina, palm facing up. Make a “come here” motion with your hand. Press firmly on the front wall of your vagina or make a tickling motion with your finger. You’ve hit the right spot if you feel a spongy spot (it may feel a little puckered).
However, it should feel slightly different than the surrounding tissue. When you discover the spot, keep pressing or "ticking" it until you start to get aroused.
Once you have found your G-spot, help your partner find it. As part of foreplay for example, guide and help him/her find it with his/her fingers.
You can also stimulate your G-spot during sex. Fortunately, this doesn't require any complicated acrobatic stunts in your bedroom - simply changing the angle of the penis is often enough.
For example, lean back slightly when you are on top to ensure that the penis brushes against the front wall of the vagina, where your G-spot is located.
This may take some practice, just like discovering your G-spot. Don't expect fireworks the first time you try it, but keep at it.
Practice makes perfect!
Fact 3: There's a reason it feels so good to hit this zone... it's part of Team Clitoris.
From anatomical point of view, the G-spot is the back-end roots of the clitoris and is part of the clitoral network. The little pea where the inner labia meet is just the tip of the clitoris, which separates into two "roots" of up to four inches long.
This means that when you stimulate the G-spot, you are actually stimulating a larger part of the clitoris than you might think.
Fact 4: If you feel like you're missing out, don't worry; experiment with other erogenous zones!
For physiological, psychological or emotional reasons, many women are unable to reach orgasm through the G-spot.
Experimenting with a vibrator , however, can set you on the path to mind-boggling orgasms. Don't get too fixated on the G-spot; you risk depriving yourself of experiencing other great spots.
Remember that every person is unique and you may have different sexual preferences. For example, some women can experience an orgasm from nipple stimulation alone!
Fact 5: When activated, the G-spot can result in female ejaculation.
Yes, you read that right... a stimulated G-spot can cause a woman to squirt and achieve a vaginal orgasm. Female ejaculation is caused by fluid accumulation in the urethral sponge. Ejaculation can occur when enough fluid builds up and is followed by intense pressure (both on the G-spot and the clitoris).
It won't always happen - and to be honest, it depends on how hydrated you are - but if squirting turns you on, go for it! Just remember to lay down a towel before you get wet and wild.
Fact 6: The G-spot is known as the sacred place in Tantric sex.
According to the book Tantric Sex Couples Guide: Communication, Sex, And Healing by Jefferey Dawson, the magical G-spot is known as the “sacred spot” in Tantric sex because it is said to be the woman's most emotional and sexual center.
Fact 7: There is such a thing as a G-shot.
According to an American doctor, special injections can make the G-spot bigger and easier to find. According to Dr. Justin Salerno, 87% of women became more aroused after receiving the injection.
He even throws “G-shot parties,” where groups of women get together to get their shots at the same time. The benefits of the shots only last a few months, though, so if you want to keep getting the benefits, you’ll have to shell out over $1,850 every four months.
Other medical professionals have serious reservations about the shots and advise women not to do them. It has not been studied by independent scientists or approved by government agencies.
Instead of a shot, we recommend seeking out the magical spot with a fun toy like the Fabulous Butterfly Vibrator .